Kelsi Bryant is a 10th grader at award-winning Marvin Ridge High School in Union County, North Carolina. After reading some archived new-teacher discussion at our MiddleWeb website, Kelsi was moved to prepare some notes for new teachers from a student point of view.
“I have been to schools on both sides of the county,” she writes, “and, with a family of teachers, I am aware of many different teaching styles. I am no teacher, it is true. But in my 10 and a half years of being a student I have had lots of good teachers; and lots of bad teachers too. I want to to share some things that my good teachers did.”
It’s good to hear from thoughtful “consumers” in our public schools. Here’s what Kelsi had to say.
Credibility[In the discussion] a lot of teachers mentioned that they would yell at their students to try and get their attention. This is my opinion on the subject:This is not going to work. I am going to tell you now. Maybe the first or second time, but after that it is a useless tactic. As a student, you are looking at your teachers for direction whether we know it or not. Jean Piaget's theory of development suggests that children imitate those around them. If you as a teacher lose your cool in a classroom, students will be more likely to respond to you "violently." If you do find yourself upset or stressed, do not continue on with your lesson. Take a moment and calm down. When your heart rate reaches a certain level, it becomes harder to make rational decisions. Take a deep breath. It will be worth it.
Other teachers mentioned that many of their students could not or would not do their homework:This is probably because the students have lost their respect for you or they never had any. That is a very large problem. I am going to be more likely to work for a teacher that I respect than I am for a teacher that doesn't know what they are doing, yet pretends they do, or one that doesn't care about their students.
You are a new teacher. Accept it. Admit that to your students. If you bring yourself to their level, they will understand much better. You will have issues in your classroom. Not all of your classes will be amazing. That does NOT mean you should ever stop trying your best to teach them. Students can sense when their teachers care about their learning and when they do not. The more effort a teacher puts into planning a lesson and grading papers and thinking about their students, the more their students will give in return. I can almost guarantee it. "Wherever you are, be all there." - Alan Hlavka
If a teacher is having problems with students that do not follow rules:It is probably because the students do not see these rules as relevant or are testing their boundaries. Middle School students have brains and therefore can think. They want to know why they have to do something. They are not little windup soldiers all in a row.
Explain to them the bigger picture. “Yes, it is just one page of homework. But I am giving you this homework to reinforce the things you learned in class today. That way when it comes up on a test, you will be more likely to remember it.” On average, people need to see something seven times to remember it. Homework is one of those seven times, so tell them that. If something you’re about to give out for students to do is irrelevant, do not give it out. We hate busywork.
The other reason may be that students are testing their boundaries. Students want to know that you care about them. If they don't follow a rule, and you call them on it, you are telling them that you care enough to stop them from doing something they shouldn't be doing. One teacher mentioned keeping extra uniforms for students who forget theirs. This is perfect -- never let an excuse stay there. Work something out.
And new teachers!! Don't give up on teaching because it is hard now. Those amazing teachers you look up to had to start somewhere! "Never be afraid to try something new. Remember amateurs built the Ark; professionals built the Titanic."
Thanks, Kelsi. Very good advice!
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